Comments on: Top Reasons Americans Give for Their Divorce

By: Bernette

Bernette — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 13:22:49 +0000

just tell me how my marriage is supposed to work when he did not even finish school and i have to take care of everything,and work for 3 years alone before he makes an effort.it also does not help that his family gets babies and buy a dream house in 2 years,but we have been married for 5 and a half years and got absolutely nothing to show for it.our car is a wreck and he even complains when i need to go to the doctor,but he tantrums whenever he isn’t helped quick enough or the things he wants is not given fast enough!i believe now marriage was never the answer,i hate his selfishness

By: Things Couples Should Discuss Before Getting Married

Things Couples Should Discuss Before Getting Married — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 19:17:24 +0000

[...] our first three topics: Finance, Career and Where you want to live.A fight over finances#1. Finance Money is the principal factor in all divorces. You should disclose your financial health, agree about financial goals and create a financial plan [...]

By: Renee' Harris

Renee' Harris — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 13:42:07 +0000

I feel that emotional abuse hurts as much as physical abuse, because of the heartache, the mental distress, and physically you feel broken.

By: PT

PT — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:01:37 +0000

The number one reason for ALL divorce without exception is sin expressed through selfishness. One party or both destroy the marriage through self-seeking, self-absorbed ways that infringe upon, if not consume, the other. It is the selfish unwillingness to relinquish the ways that destroy the marriage that ultimately destroys the marriage. If you are willing to first be honest about your sinfulness and then repent of it, then your marriage has hope.

True love puts the other’s well-being above your own. When one recognizes that the other’s well-being is compromised by what you is doing, then your responsibility is to stop doing it! The selfish continue to afflict his/her spouse to the dissatisfaction in and ultimately unto the demise of the marriage.

Acknowledge the truth about your sinfulness and repent of it. (And you may have to repent multiple times.) Your marriage should be of more value to you than your pride.