Comments on: Is Love a Decision or a Feeling?

By: What Keeps Us From Being Happy? | Marriage Gems

What Keeps Us From Being Happy? | Marriage Gems — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 18:30:35 +0000

[...] says many of us mistakenly believe happiness is a feeling. (This sounds a lot like our discussion Is Love a Decision or a Feeling?) As such, they make most choices in their lives based around whether the action will cause [...]

By: lorilowe

lorilowe — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 22:42:31 +0000

Thanks so much. This is one of my most-searched posts.

By: allenrogers

allenrogers — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 18:07:54 +0000

awesome! i placed a link in my blog to this page because you hit the nail on the head. thanks.

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By: More on Marrying the Wrong Person | Marriage Gems

More on Marrying the Wrong Person | Marriage Gems — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 13:00:24 +0000

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By: lorilowe

lorilowe — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 12:56:48 +0000

It’s an interesting question. I will share with you that I did not feel an immediate spark/attraction to the man who is now the love of my life. The more I learned about him and got to know him, the more I really liked him. Our deep friendship turned into a love relationship. Having a deep friendship at your core, I think, is essential to a long-lasting relationship. You still need some kind of physical attraction, but often that will grow once you’ve falling in love with their personality.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 12:00:44 +0000

this definition of love is one that’s been reinforced by many mentors and authors i’ve come across… as someone who’s dating it can be confusing how much romantic love you should feel for the person. i don’t want to miss out on someone great because i don’t feel that electricity or magnetic draw to be with and around them. i wonder that because they don’t inspire feelings of adoration, or it’s not just overflowing from my heart to actively adore them that it’s not what it should be. but i know adoration and that kind of puppy love isn’t the same as the kind of love it takes to work through and strengthen a marriage… thoughts? =)

By: porsamini

porsamini — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 21:06:27 +0000

very true! and i’d like to add few more definition for true love.. and they are:
4) possessiveness
5) loyalty